I was thinking about the strangeness ... I am happier than I have ever been ... yet I am pretty sad at how disconnected I feel to my friends, both back home and in ann arbor ... how is that possible?
That happens. But I don't believe that would be a parmanent state of being for you. I mean, I think you can achieve the harmony of being happy and being connected in due time. You are by nature pretty happy and connected person.
Meanwhile, your friends aren't going anywhere :-D
Well, some may move away physically, but figuratively they are here for you, you know what I'm sayin'?
hey...just wanted to say hi & it was cool to talk to you in a random moment of total real-ness like that. megumi & i were driving away going...wow that was such a sisterhood moment. :)
Yep. I used to have this huge circle of friends. As I get older, the circle gets smaller and smaller, but the friends get better and better. So, while I'm sad that I don't have as many people to hand out with anymore, the ones I do have a lot more meaningful. There's a small part that feels like you're a little bit of a loser because you don't have a lot of close friends, but on the flip side, if you had a lot of close friends, they wouldn't be close.
My husband and I live and work in the Ann Arbor area. We love cooking, laughing, hanging out with friends, and being married! Since our wedding in July 2010, we have barely had a moment to ourselves, but we are looking forward to long life together.
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are those both my fault?
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That happens. But I don't believe that would be a parmanent state of being for you. I mean, I think you can achieve the harmony of being happy and being connected in due time. You are by nature pretty happy and connected person.
Meanwhile, your friends aren't going anywhere :-D
Well, some may move away physically, but figuratively they are here for you, you know what I'm sayin'?
ditto to megumi. just wanted to say hi to you & i just prayed for you, & i'm very happy you are so happy & enjoying life. :) love, s.
hey...just wanted to say hi & it was cool to talk to you in a random moment of total real-ness like that. megumi & i were driving away going...wow that was such a sisterhood moment. :)
Yep. I used to have this huge circle of friends. As I get older, the circle gets smaller and smaller, but the friends get better and better. So, while I'm sad that I don't have as many people to hand out with anymore, the ones I do have a lot more meaningful. There's a small part that feels like you're a little bit of a loser because you don't have a lot of close friends, but on the flip side, if you had a lot of close friends, they wouldn't be close.
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